The Fear Of Change

Every Happiness Block Is Related To A Fear

1. The Fear Of The Unknown

2. The Fear Of Not Being Good Enough

3. The Fear Of Being Wrong

4. The Fear Of Being Judged

5. The Fear Of Failure

6. The Fear Of Change

Are you holding yourself back?

Have you ever been stuck in that cycle of wanting to change your life and not knowing why you’re not?

Watching yourself do exactly the thing that’s making you unhappy and having no understanding of why you’re not taking the action that you want to take?

Maybe you long to create a better life for yourself where you’re earning more money, or where you love your body, or where you’ve met your soul mate, or where you are living in the location of your dreams, or where you just feel comfortable in your own skin, but something inside feels like it’s blocking you and don't know what it is.

Or maybe you have everything; a great job, awesome friends, a beautiful home, and money, but you’re still not happy and you don’t know why.

Until you uncover these six happiness blocks and understand how they're holding you back you will unknowingly be living from a programme of fear. Once you know it's there, fear doesn't have to hold you back, you can use it powerfully to drive radical positive action.

This Is How Block #6 Will Hold You Back

With change comes doubt. So the fear of change causes us to not trust ourselves, creating an unsettled feeling, making us nervous and unsure of our situation and future. When you don't trust yourself you can't hear your intuition and you doubt all of your decisions, your direction and what's right for you. All change will feel like a risk because you don't believe that everything will be ok. You might feel anxious or worried about the future because you don't like the uncertainty.

How This Block Shows Up

When you don’t trust yourself, you stay in situations that rob you of your happiness, such as when you no longer enjoy your work but won’t leave because you see it as too risky. Perhaps you are unhappy in a relationship but stay in it too long because you think it’s safe, or you long for a promotion but won’t speak up in the meeting because you fear the reaction. Life is always changing and you need to trust everything is going to be ok when you do create change. When we think that change equals risk, we go into risk assessment mode! Have a think about each time you want to make a change in your life. Do you look for all the risks or do you look for the potential growth? Focusing on growth will help you overcome the fear of change because it’s how you learn to trust yourself.

Become The Guru

You are guided by your own intuition and find the answers that you’re looking for from within. In moments of doubt or uncertainty, you’re able to connect to a strength within that feels greater than yourself. Life feels much, much easier. You have a deep trust in life and yourself. You are able to make bold moves in your life without necessarily understanding why or what they are for, except that you just know it's the right thing to do. Life is more synchronised. You find that you meet the right people or hear the right information, just at the moment you need it most. It would be fair to say that you feel luckier in life, although you know that it's not luck. If you need guidance you are given signs or you receive messages that connect to your greater sense of knowing. You feel wise. You feel held. You feel at peace.


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The Happiness Reset

Imagine becoming The Guru in your life—what would be different about how you're doing things now?

You can't keep holding yourself back forever, convincing yourself you're happy when deep down you know that you're not fulfilling your fullest potential and that there's more for you.

How long will you continue to watch yourself doing exactly the thing that is keeping you stuck and not understanding why you're not changing?

You can take positive action towards making your life better and you can have the confidence, courage and self belief you need to be your most happy and successful self.

It's time to overcome what's been blocking you all of this time and discover the real you—happy, confident and successful.

Join The Happiness Reset, my 7-day programme that uncovers the 6 happiness blocks secretly sabotaging you from moving your life forward and creating success.

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