THE BLOCK HOLDING YOU BACK THE MOST IS:

HAPPINESS BLOCK #3

The Fear Of Being Wrong

How This Block Can Hold You Back

This block is about looking at whether a belief you are living by is true. Because often what robs us of our happiness is living by someone else’s truth or a truth that belongs in the past and which you can shed like an unwanted skin. And it is Happiness Block Three, The Fear of Being Wrong, that will keep you from rejecting your truth and stop you from creating a fresh experience of life. For example, if you insist you are right about not being smart enough, you won’t have to start your own business and risk failure. If you insist you are right about not being pretty enough, you won’t take the chance of smiling at the person you fancy in the bar and risk rejection. If you are convinced you are not cool enough, you won’t have to accept the dinner invitation and risk saying something stupid. But what if you are wrong about your abilities and potential, and it is holding you back from changing your experience?

How This Block Shows Up

We can all get stuck in negative loops, thinking about past events, or even about things that haven’t happened yet, and probably never will! Fear, worry and doubt will have you chewing over something in the future, playing out the negative consequences. Maybe you’re still stewing about the way an ex treated you and you play it over and over in your head, creating fresh feelings of anger and rejection even though it happened a long time ago. Do you see how in this situation you would be innocently making it impossible to move on, by using your own thoughts against yourself? You might dwell on how someone who you thought was a friend stole your business idea and you are still angry and struggle to let it go. When you keep thinking about something that upsets you, it makes you feel out of control because you experience the world through your mind, even though it seems like the world is out there. We all live in the same world, but through our thoughts, we all experience it differently.

Become The Truth Seeker

With a curious mind, heart and soul, you dive deep to discover what feels true for you, with a flexibility to your thinking that allows you to be wrong. You do not need to prove yourself and are accepting of other peoples' thoughts and beliefs. You know what you want, what you think and what you believe. You have no problem speaking up for yourself and voicing your opinion. You are not controlled by your mind or your thoughts. You are able to make a conscious and empowered choice about who you want to be and how you want to respond to life. When you feel stuck in life or are experiencing something difficult you can quickly shift your perspective to allow life to flow again. It's clear to you when and how you are limiting yourself with the story you're creating and sticking yourself to.

 

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The Happiness Reset

Imagine becoming The Truth Seeker in your life—what would be different about how you're doing things now?

You can't keep worry about what other people think of you forever, convincing yourself you're happy when deep down you know that you're not fulfilling your fullest potential and that there's more for you.

How long will you continue to watch yourself doing exactly the thing that is keeping you stuck and not understanding why you're not changing?

You can take positive action towards making your life better and you can have the confidence, courage and self belief you need to be your most happy and successful self.

It's time to overcome what's been blocking you all of this time and discover the real you—happy, confident and successful.

Join The Happiness Reset, my 7-day programme that uncovers the 6 happiness blocks secretly sabotaging you from moving your life forward and creating success.

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