Balancing Love and Power for Success

Have you ever felt like you were stuck in a cycle of wanting success but not receiving? Or perhaps you’ve experienced moments of ambition, only to find yourself overwhelmed by doubt or fear? If so, you’re not alone. Many of us struggle with manifesting our deepest desires, often feeling as if there’s an invisible barrier blocking our path to success. Recently, during a channeling session, I discovered a profound message that might just hold the key to breaking through those barriers: the power of love combined with personal power. 

The Awakening

To fully understand why this message resonates, let’s take a trip back to my first experience with Ayahuasca in 2016. I attended the ceremony with an open heart and a desire for deeper understanding. My intention was simple: to learn more about myself. When it was time for everyone to declare their intentions, I boldly announced that I was happy. However, I felt a subtle tension in the air, as if I were being tested in some way. Later that night, when the opportunity arose to take an extra cup of the medicine, I hesitated. My intuition screamed “no,” and I listened. The following morning, when the group shared their experiences, I raised my hand, feeling forgotten.

The host revealed that it was a test to see if I could access my personal power and balance it with love. The realisation struck me like lightning: I had power, but it needed to be tempered with love. This lesson, though presented in an unconventional manner, stayed with me and resurfaced recently while I was guiding a client who felt stuck in their manifestations. 

Understanding Love and Power

In society, we often see leaders and influential figures operate solely from a place of power. Love is frequently viewed as a weakness, a distraction from the harsh realities of decision-making. However, when you begin to explore the essence of love, particularly the love that emanates from source energy, you realise it is anything but weak. It is a potent force, a foundation for true manifestation. During a powerful activation last year, I felt the unmistakable presence of source energy. It spoke directly to me: “Remember who you are, Lydia, remember.” This statement held a weight that was both paralysing and stabilising.

In that moment, I understood that our true essence is rooted in both power and love. So, what does this mean for our everyday lives? It means that if we wish to manifest anything—whether it’s love, abundance, opportunities, or success—we must first tap into the energy of love.

The Key to Love Manifestation

Manifestation isn’t just about hard work or determination; it’s about aligning your energy with the frequencies of what you want to create.

Love Yourself First – Success Comes Later

Before you can attract anything into your life, you must cultivate a deep sense of self-love. This is not merely a superficial affirmation; it involves a profound acceptance of who you are, flaws and all. When you love yourself, you align your energy with positivity, which opens the door for manifestations to flow in. Each day, take a moment to reflect on what you appreciate about yourself. Write these down and read them aloud. Let this love permeate your being.

Infuse Love into Your Actions

Every action you take should be infused with love and compassion. When you approach tasks, whether mundane or monumental, with a loving attitude, you change the energy surrounding them. This shift can transform not only your experience but also the outcomes. Before engaging in a task, ask yourself, “How can I approach this with love?” Whether it’s a work project or a simple chore at home, change your mindset to one of loving service.

Focus on What You Love

Your attention is your power. If you focus on love—whether that’s for your passions, your relationships, or even the universe itself—you amplify that energy. By doing so, you send out vibrations that attract similar energies back to you. Make a list of things you love. It can be anything from nature to art to people in your life. Spend time each day focusing on these things, feeling gratitude for their presence in your life.

Balance Power and Success with Compassion

Remember that personal power without love can lead to burnout or even resentment. As you tap into your power, ensure it’s balanced with compassion. This balance allows you to remain grounded and connected to your core values. During moments of decision-making, ask yourself how your choices align with your values. Are you acting out of fear, or are you embodying your power while remaining compassionate?

Visualise Your Desires with Love

Visualisation is a potent tool in manifestation. However, it’s crucial to visualise your desires infused with love. Imagine not just achieving your goals, but also how it feels to live in that reality filled with love and joy. Spend time in meditation, visualising your goals. Feel the love associated with achieving those desires. What does it feel like? How does it change your life?

The Transformation

By embracing the duality of love and power, I have seen incredible shifts not just in my own life, but in the lives of those I guide. Love acts as a magnet, attracting your desires while power drives the action needed to manifest them. It’s a harmonious dance that leads to a more fulfilling and abundant life. The stories of transformation I’ve witnessed are numerous. People who once felt stuck in their careers have found new paths that ignite their passions. Relationships once fraught with tension have blossomed into connections rich with love and understanding. Individuals who struggled with self-doubt have stepped into their power, crafting lives filled with purpose.

First, embrace self-love. Before you can manifest anything, it’s important to cultivate a deep appreciation for yourself, as this self-love creates a positive energy flow. Next, infuse your actions with love. When you approach every task with a loving mindset, you transform not only your experience but also the outcomes. Focus on love, as your attention is powerful—what you focus on expands, so direct your energy toward the things you truly love. It’s also vital to balance power with compassion; ensure that your personal power is balanced with love and compassion for others. Lastly, visualise with love. Use visualisation techniques to manifest your desires, while feeling the love associated with achieving those goals.

If you find yourself feeling stuck in your manifestations, remember the powerful combination of love and personal power/success. By aligning your energy with these principles, you can unlock a world of possibilities. The universe is ready to respond to your vibrational frequency; all you have to do is open your heart and embrace your power.

Lydia Kimmerling

Master Life Coach | Speaker | Educator | If you feel like there’s MORE ‘out there’ for you—there is! The answers aren't as far away as they feel and I will show you how to unlock them.

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